Pleasure pain during BDSM spanking

Spanking triggers a cocktail of feelings of happiness. When spanking many therefore feel to pleasure and pain at the same time. Learn everything about the feeling of happiness during spanking on this page.

Pleasure pain

When we are under stress or our nervous system perceives pain, the adrenal medulla is signaled to release adrenaline. At the same time, blood pressure, pulse and muscle activity increase and the entire body is put on alert. As soon as the adrenaline reaches the brain via the bloodstream, the brain in turn produces a whole cocktail of messenger substances, such as endorphin, serotonin, melatonin and dopamine. The key substance dopamine is produced in response to both pain and feelings of happiness. The messenger substances create a kind of euphoria in the body - you feel a bit "high." In this way, people can feel happiness and pain at the same time. And this is not a special case: it is similar with endurance athletes. They agonize over many kilometers in a marathon and experience a flow feeling, a true feeling of happiness due to the increased production of dopamine. Something similar can be observed in the preparation of food: Numerous people additionally spice up their dishes with chili. Not infrequently, this is also exaggerated, so that the result is not infrequently pain-distorted faces. Nevertheless, these people usually feel fresher and happier after eating.

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Figure 1: Bring momentum to your love life

The buttocks are also a very special part of the body. Like the sexual organs, it represents an erogenous zone of the human body. However, unlike the other erogenous areas of the body, the nerves of the buttocks are hidden under a thick layer of fat. Therefore, stimulation by gently stroking the buttocks does not produce sexual arousal. Harder methodologies are needed to trigger arousal. In spanking, the stimulation can penetrate deep to the nerves and increase the general state of arousal. In addition to the nerves in the buttocks, the sexual organs are also mechanically co-stimulated as a side effect - both directly through the impact effect, which also spreads beyond the buttocks like shock waves. But also the rhythmic movement of the spanked produced from the spanking leads to a further mechanical stimulation of the sexual organs (breast, penis, clitoris). Another effect that occurs during the stimulation of the buttocks is the promotion of blood circulation in the pelvic area. This blood flow stimulating effect also affects the area of the nearby sexual organs and increases the state of arousal.

In addition to the purely physiological effects, the psychological fantasies additionally increase the arousal. For the subject (whether man or woman), the feeling of submission, humiliation, vulnerability and, not least, sexual objectification vis-à-vis the active partner is often sexually arousing. On the other hand, the performing partner is aroused by a sense of power, control, and superiority, as well as the pleasure of being able to play with the attractive partner at will. For many women, surrender and abandonment is an important element of sexual pleasure. An excitingly staged role play can enhance this effect. Whether it's the strict teacher punishing his student for misconduct or the boss helping her lazy subordinates to become more motivated to work by using tangible arguments. There are hundreds of possible scenes to make the fantasy of both even more authentic. Role-playing can also already be integrated during the preparation of the spanking adventure.

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